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Embracing authenticity: the invitation offered through relationship with a transgender loved one

Embracing authenticity: the invitation offered through relationship with a transgender loved one

A year or so ago I posted an essay after it appeared in issue 132 of a literary journal called Sinister Wisdom . My beloved Declan...

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